Is the centripetal force a real force in PHYS 101?
No, and saying so is worth marks. The real forces are the ones other objects exert: gravity, the normal force, tension, friction. Circular motion adds none of them. The phrase centripetal force is the name given to the resultant of those real forces, measured along the direction of the centre, and its size is the mass times the speed squared divided by the radius. Draw the real forces, point an axis at the centre, and set their sum equal to that quantity. If you add a separate arrow for it, you have counted one force twice.
When can I write that friction equals mu times the normal force?
Always for kinetic friction, once the object is actually sliding. For static friction, only at the single instant when the object is on the point of slipping, which the problem announces with words such as on the point of, about to move, minimum force or maximum speed. In every other case the object is at rest and static friction simply balances whatever is pushing along the surface, so you find it from the condition that the forces cancel, not from a formula.
Why are astronauts weightless if gravity is still there?
Because what your body feels is the floor pushing on you, not gravity itself. Four hundred kilometres up, the strength of gravity is still about eighty nine per cent of its value on the ground, and that is exactly what keeps the station on its circular path. The station, the astronaut and the sandwich are all falling toward the Earth with the same acceleration, so the floor never has to push on anyone. The normal force is zero, and that sensation is what we call weightlessness.
Do I need calculus for the circular motion chapter of PHYS 101?
No. PHYS 101 is the algebra based mechanics course at McGill, and every result in this chapter comes from Newton's second law, right angle trigonometry and ordinary algebra. Most solutions you will find online are written for a calculus based course and open by differentiating a position vector, which is not the method you are being examined on. If a solution starts with a derivative, it is not a PHYS 101 solution even when its final number happens to be correct.
Does a heavier car go off a curve before a lighter one?
No, and the reason is worth understanding. The heavier car needs a larger friction force to turn, because the force required grows with the mass. But it also presses harder on the road, so the largest friction available grows with the mass in exactly the same proportion. The two effects cancel and the mass disappears from the answer, leaving a maximum speed that depends only on the coefficient of friction, the radius of the curve and the strength of gravity.